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Ostomy & IBD Connection Platform — Dating & Friendship Community

OstoDate gives people living with ostomies, Crohn’s and IBD the tools to connect safely since 2005 — private chat and messaging, profile and photo controls, and search filters to find people by condition, lifestyle or interests.

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Welcome to OstoDate

OstoDate is a private, moderated platform designed for people living with ostomies, Crohn’s disease and IBD to connect safely. It’s not just a platform — it’s a set of tools to help you build real connections, share experiences and meet people who understand life after stoma surgery, ulcerative colitis or IBD.

Use private messaging and chat, control your comfort with profile and photo privacy, and find matches using search filters by condition, lifestyle and interests. Our moderation team keeps OstoDate respectful with active moderation and clear reporting options.

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Ostomy, Crohn’s & IBD Guides

Relationships and Crohn’s Disease: Building Love, Trust and Understanding Relationships and Crohn’s Disease: Building Love, Trust and Understanding
Life After Ostomy Surgery: What to Expect Emotionally and Physically Life After Ostomy Surgery: What to Expect Emotionally and Physically
Is It Crohn’s or IBS? How to Tell the Difference Is It Crohn’s or IBS? How to Tell the Difference
Early Signs of Crohn’s Disease You Shouldn’t Ignore Early Signs of Crohn’s Disease You Shouldn’t Ignore

FAQs

Is OstoDate only for dating?
No. Many members are here for support and friendship. Dating happens too — but at your pace, without pressure.
Who is OstoDate for?
People with ostomies, Crohn’s/IBD, caregivers, and allies who value compassion and privacy.
Do I control my privacy?
Yes. You choose what to share and who can see it. We actively moderate to keep the platform safe and respectful.
Is OstoDate a busy dating site?
OstoDate is a smaller, niche community by nature. Connections here grow over time rather than happening instantly, and activity levels can vary. It’s designed for meaningful, long-term connections, not quick matches Learn more..
How long has OstoDate been running?
OstoDate has been running since 2005. It was created to provide a calm, private space for people living with ostomies, Crohn’s and IBD to connect at their own pace.

Ostomy, Crohn’s & IBD Support, Dating and Friendship

Living with an ostomy, Crohn’s disease or inflammatory bowel disease can feel isolating. Many people search for understanding, emotional support and real connection. OstoDate brings together people who understand life after stoma surgery, flare-ups, hospital visits and recovery.

Whether you have a colostomy, ileostomy or are managing Crohn’s or ulcerative colitis, our platform helps you meet people with similar experiences. Members join for friendship, support, relationships and shared understanding.

Since 2005, OstoDate has supported a respectful, private community focused on long-term connection and wellbeing.

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