well been on here a while and not spoke to many was hoping to speak to a few people that have had experience of having and living with a bag just find it so difficult to date with the bag so many men put off by it straight away they run a mile .i can live with it knowing it cant be reversed and so lucky to be here after the terrible 18 months of chemo and radiotherapy and illness but being a positive person i have to believe us baggies will eventually get a life and meet someone who experiences the same as each other hopefully and to live with it together thanks for reading love to swap stories .