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Here you will find a growing collection of guides, real experiences and supportive how-tos for people living with an ostomy, IBD and related conditions.


Relationships and Crohn’s Disease: Building Love, Trust and Understanding

Relationships and Crohn’s Disease: Building Love, Trust and Understanding

Living with Crohn’s disease can affect many parts of daily life, including how people approach dating, relationships and emotional connection. From managing symptoms and fatigue to navigating body image and communication, Crohn’s disease can create unique challenges. However, many people discover that their experiences lead to deeper emotional bonds, stronger communication and more meaningful long…

Travelling With Crohn’s or an Ostomy: How People Make It Work

Travelling With Crohn’s or an Ostomy: How People Make It Work

Travelling with Crohn’s disease or an ostomy can feel intimidating, especially if symptoms are unpredictable or confidence has taken a knock. Many people worry about access to bathrooms, managing fatigue, or coping with unexpected flare days. These concerns are valid — but they don’t mean travel has to stop. In reality, many people with Crohn’s or an ostomy travel successfully by planning differen…

What Partners Worry About (And Why It’s Usually Not What You Think)

What Partners Worry About (And Why It’s Usually Not What You Think)

When you live with Crohn’s disease or an ostomy, it’s easy to assume that partners are worried about the same things you are — appearance, intimacy, or the future of the relationship. Many people carry these fears quietly, imagining rejection or disappointment that often isn’t actually there. In reality, partners usually worry about very different things. Most are concerned about whether they’ll s…

How to Talk to a Partner About Difficult Crohn’s or Ostomy Days

How to Talk to a Partner About Difficult Crohn’s or Ostomy Days

Living with Crohn’s disease or an ostomy means that some days are harder than others. Flare-ups, fatigue, pain, or low energy can appear without warning, and explaining these days to a partner can feel emotionally exhausting. Many people worry about sounding negative, needy, or difficult — but open communication is one of the strongest foundations of a healthy relationship. Talking about difficult…

Sex & Intimacy With an Ostomy: What to Expect, What Helps, and What’s Normal

Sex & Intimacy With an Ostomy: What to Expect, What Helps, and What’s Normal

Sex and intimacy with an ostomy are among the most searched — and least openly discussed — concerns after surgery. Many people worry that intimacy will feel awkward, uncomfortable, or no longer possible. These fears are completely understandable, but for most people, they don’t reflect reality. An ostomy does not remove your ability to feel desire, closeness, or sexual connection. Intimacy is shap…

When to Tell Someone About Your Ostomy (And Why Timing Matters)

When to Tell Someone About Your Ostomy (And Why Timing Matters)

One of the most common worries when dating with an ostomy is knowing when to tell someone. Many people fear saying it too soon or waiting too long, worried it might change how they’re seen. These concerns are completely normal, especially when confidence feels fragile after surgery or diagnosis. The truth is, there is no single “right” moment to tell someone about your ostomy. Some people prefer t…

Dating Anxiety With Crohn’s: How to Stop Fear Running Your Love Life

Dating Anxiety With Crohn’s: How to Stop Fear Running Your Love Life

Dating anxiety is extremely common for people living with Crohn’s disease or colitis. Fear of symptoms, flare-ups, or being judged can quietly take over, making dating feel tense rather than enjoyable. If you’ve felt this way, it doesn’t mean you’re failing — it means you’re navigating something real. Much of this anxiety comes from imagining worst-case scenarios before they happen. Worries about…

How to Feel Attractive Again After Ostomy Surgery

How to Feel Attractive Again After Ostomy Surgery

After ostomy surgery, it’s common to feel disconnected from your body or unsure of how attractive you are. Even people who were confident before surgery can struggle with self-image afterwards. These feelings are understandable — and they are not permanent. Many people experience a gradual return of confidence as they adjust physically and emotionally. Attraction is not only about appearance. Conf…

Is Your Love Life Over With Crohn’s or an Ostomy? Absolutely Not

Is Your Love Life Over With Crohn’s or an Ostomy? Absolutely Not

After a diagnosis of Crohn’s disease, colitis, or living with an ostomy, many people quietly fear the same thing: that their love life is over. This fear often appears suddenly, especially after surgery or during difficult flares, and it can feel deeply personal. But this belief is far more common than it is true. Having a chronic condition or an ostomy does not make you less attractive, less desi…

Life After Ostomy Surgery: What to Expect Emotionally and Physically

Life After Ostomy Surgery: What to Expect Emotionally and Physically

Life after ostomy surgery can feel overwhelming at first. Alongside physical healing, many people experience a wide range of emotions, including relief, fear, grief, and uncertainty. Adjusting to an ostomy is not just about learning practical routines — it’s also about rebuilding confidence and trust in your body. In the early weeks after surgery, fatigue and sensitivity are common as the body rec…