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Here you will find a growing collection of guides, real experiences and supportive how-tos for people living with an ostomy, IBD and related conditions.


When to Tell Someone About Your Ostomy (And Why Timing Matters)

When to Tell Someone About Your Ostomy (And Why Timing Matters)

One of the most common worries when dating with an ostomy is knowing when to tell someone. Many people fear saying it too soon or waiting too long, worried it might change how they’re seen. These concerns are completely normal, especially when confidence feels fragile after surgery or diagnosis. The truth is, there is no single “right” moment to tell someone about your ostomy. Some people prefer t…

Is Your Love Life Over With Crohn’s or an Ostomy? Absolutely Not

Is Your Love Life Over With Crohn’s or an Ostomy? Absolutely Not

After a diagnosis of Crohn’s disease, colitis, or living with an ostomy, many people quietly fear the same thing: that their love life is over. This fear often appears suddenly, especially after surgery or during difficult flares, and it can feel deeply personal. But this belief is far more common than it is true. Having a chronic condition or an ostomy does not make you less attractive, less desi…

Dating Someone With an Ostomy Bag: What Really Matters in a Relationship

Dating Someone With an Ostomy Bag: What Really Matters in a Relationship

Dating someone with an ostomy bag can raise questions, especially if it’s new to you or something you’ve never encountered before. What matters most, though, is understanding that an ostomy is simply a medical solution that allows someone to live fully, confidently, and independently. It does not change who they are, how they love, or what they bring into a relationship. Most people with an ostomy…

How to Tell Someone You Have an Ostomy When Dating for the First Time

How to Tell Someone You Have an Ostomy When Dating for the First Time

Talking about an ostomy on a first date can feel intimidating, but honesty handled with calm confidence builds stronger connections. Most people appreciate openness, especially when it’s shared at the right moment. You don’t have to explain everything straight away; instead, wait for a comfortable point in the conversation when trust is forming. A simple line such as “There’s something personal I…

We are back

We are back

The articles section is back! Today, we want to take a moment to celebrate the incredible journey of ostomates. Living with an ostomy can bring unique challenges, but it also opens the door to a world of resilience and empowerment. For many ostomates, the experience begins with a life-changing surgery that may feel daunting at first. However, this journey is often marked by strength and determinat…